HOT G.R.I.T.S. (Girls Raised In The South)

Tuesday, January 02, 2007

getting grown

i have never really felt like an adult since i have turned 18 until today. today i got a letter in the mail saying that my mortgage was bought by another company and my january payment is due to countrywide mortgage instead of my former mortgage company. i was just about to make my online payment. so i call my mom and ask her what to do. she says... handle your business and call the new mortgage company and ask them where to make your payment and for your new account number.

so i look up countrywide's number online and call the company. the lady of course couldn't find my mortgage... so she says "is any one else on this account?". wow, for the first time in my life i felt alone and grown. i began thinking about my rents and how when someone asks my mom that question she has a husband's social to give. matter fact, now that i think about my mother has never lived by herself ever in life. anyway, i don't know why that question made me feel like an adult. i guess it made me realize that i actually have grown folks obligations that have to be paid ever month and that i alone am responsible for it.

i have never been one of those people that any of my friends described as responisible. i mean no one will let me babysit their dog for a weekend. so its crazy that i'm 25 and i am officially grown. i have no more new semesters to look forward too. i am in the real world now and officially parting with the grown & sexy.

cheers

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